This is my blog in which I talk about everything. But if you are interested in just the adoption story click here on "Ethan's Story" or see below under "other blogs" and you can see his blog. This blog contains the same information (my side of the story) but the other one is in a simple form and easier to follow.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

In Ellie's Words: "Better Late Than Never"

Sorry to every one who has been begging for updates! Thanks to all of you who have thought about, prayed for, or emailed us. I'm going to try to do a better job of keeping up now. I've been amazed at how busy it's been around here! There is no way I can catch up on all the details of the past two months and have been dreading getting back on here for that reason. So instead I'm going to give a few of the high lights...and there are a lot!

Ethan: The transformation in this kid is amazing. He now understands almost everything and has many words. His temper is beginning to improve. We have even seen a change in the way he plays and his ability to play "imaginary" games with things such as dishes. He now LOVES his mommy and will cuddle with me even when he has the option of daddy. He enjoys going to Sunday School with Evan and will go without us taking him. We had been hoping to get out on a date sometime and leave him for just a few hours the first time. However, we had an emergency last night (more details in a minute) and he and Evan ended up staying with a friend overnight. He didn't even cry!! When I came to pick him up he had one of the biggest smiles I've ever seen and nearly jumped out of the person's arms to get to me. :)

One of the biggest praises we have is that, for now, he won't be needing surgery! The Neurosurgeon said he has a very large cyst between the two hemispheres of the brain but seems to be unaffected by it at this time. Although things could change in the future. So for now we wait and take him back for another MRI in 6 months.


Ethan has so many crazy expressions! Here are a few of the common ones. His actions are often very jerky and stiff as you can see in the picture to the right.


Evan: Poor little guy had a very hard time adjusting to a new brother. Suddenly most of his things became "their" things. For a while he rode around on this little car (that he hardly noticed before) and wouldn't get off even to eat without a fit. One day I opened the seat of the car and found all Evan's "precious" toys hidden inside. He just needed something that was his and only his. However, now the two are getting along very well and copy each other on everything. Evan's latest copied behavior is thumb sucking!

Evan is our little coffee drinker (decaf of course!).

Ellie
(or "Elise" as she now wishes to be called):
Last night's emergency that I mentioned earlier was Ellie. While running around our living room with the boys she slipped on a play cup and broke her arm! Because of the timing with dinner they weren't able to give her anesthetics until morning so we had to spend the night in the hospital and wait to set her arm till at 7am today. She was so brave! She cried when it first happened but was fine and moving it around at the hospital. The Dr. said he's seen football players cry more than her! She is now sporting a cute little pink cast!



Puppy: Yes, you read correctly. When we met a lady at the mall giving away free puppies I decided that a 4 year old girl who I'm trying to teach preschool to, and 2 rambunctious 2 year old boys, one of whom we were still trying to get to know, along with a ton of house work just wasn't enough to keep me busy! So I got my very first puppy! I have since learned that they require more work then scooping food into a bowl each day! Anyone want a FREE puppy? Just kidding.



Pictures: Here are just a few of the many pictures from the past 2 months.

Monkey Kisses

Cinnamon and Sugar Doughnuts!

This is what happened in the kitchen last time I tried to blog. The boys are great at getting into trouble together. They were so proud of themselves for eating the entire bag of left overs.

Ethan loves the snow and doesn't seem to mind the cold at all

Brotherly Love

Family Night--Baking Cookies

Ethan's idea of "helping"


Mommy's helpers...I'm running out of room in my kitchen!

Ellie teaching Ethan to play with dishes

Just looking beautiful!

Daddy Time

11 comments:

Baby N's Mom said...

Ethan is looking SO well. I love his smile. It's nice to see. Sorry to hear about Elise's arm, but it's a "battle scar" she can share later. Poor little Evan and "his" toys. Hope things continue to get better.

K said...

Wow, there has sure been a lot going on! Congratulations on all of the improvements with Ethan, it sounds like he is really doing well. What a blessing about the surgery. Sorry about Ellie's arm, and i hope the cast is off in no time and that she isn't in any pain. Thanks for the update (but try not to wait so long next time OK?)

And wow about the puppy- cause you didn't have enough to do LOL.

Gina said...

Misty! Welcome back! I'm so relieved to hear that you are all settling in and sorry to hear about Ellie's arm. I've wondered how I'll ever have the time to blog once we're home with the boys, but like you, blogging won't be my priority. Still, it's good to finally hear from you and I look forward to hearing more when you have time to share!
Gina

Melissa Cz said...

Thank you so much for the update, I figured you were swamped! I love the pictures and I'm so happy to hear about Ethan's adjustment. Evan is just being two, actually it sounds like he is doing well now too.

Hang in there and have fun!

Heidi said...

I'm so glad you're back!! I was starting to get worried, but I'm glad everything is ok! Adjustment times are hard, but it looks like Ethan is thriving. I'm glad you're all doing well!

The Ben Show said...

I'm glad you're back and even "gladder" (yes, I was an english major) to see your beautiful family. I SO understand the puppy thing, and they are SO much work. We have 2 dogs, 2 cats, and I am officially cut off from the animal shelter!! You guys are doing great!

Karen Wall said...

Welcome back! Love the pictures and glad to hear you are all adjusting to life as a new family of 5 and a puppy!

Anonymous said...

Welcome back! We really missed seeing your smiling faces and the updates, as we checked the blog everyday waiting for details! Sounds like you have your hands full, but you are so blessed to have such a wonderful family! We love and miss you!

Jessica and Eddie said...

I have been checking your blog every week for an update. So glad to hear things are going good. Sorry to hear Ellie's arm. Ethan looks so happy. I am sure it took some time for Evan to adjust to the shariing of the toys. I love the picture of Evan and Ethan. It's too cute!!!

Hiking Mama said...

Hi! I have been following your blog for a while but haven't commented yet. Ethan looks like he is doing great. He looks so happy in all of the pictures.

I'm so sorry about Ellie's arm...I hope it heals quickly! I can't wait to see more updates. What a beautiful family you have!!

Chip and Sara said...

God has blessed your family tremendously!! It looks like everyone is adjusting so well, even though at times I can imagine it is so difficult. Isn't parenthood such a fulfilling ministry. We can't wait to meet Ethan!
Love,
Chip, Sara, and Aaron Needhazm